Valerie Fraterrigo Milliken

Profile Updated: April 25, 2026
Residing In: Oakdale, NY USA
Spouse/Partner: Edward J. Milliken a retired Superintendent of Schools (East Islip SD) and BOCES Superintendant for Eastern Suffolk BOCES
Occupation: Retired Teacher, HS Business and Elementary (1st grade)
Family:

I have three children and 11 grandchildren:
Daughter Denise (60) and 2 children - Danny, 27 and Joshua, 15;
Son Nicolas III (57) and 5 children: Austin, 30, Samantha 21, Kierstin 18, and twins Nicolas IV and Christian, 16;
Son Scott (55) and 4 children: Kaitlynn, 34, Maggie Valerie, 16, Anna 14, and Markie 13.
Denise was a biochemist and now is a stay-at-home mom
Nicolas is in finance and in the process of starting his own investment company
Scott was the Executive Chef for Merrill Lynch in NYC until 9/11 and then left his great job to become a NYC firefighter, having been so impressed with what they did in the City after 9/11.
We recently became great-grandparents to baby Eloise in February.

Education:

Dowling College, MS in Education
SUNY, Empire State BS
Adelphi University - Certified Paralegal

Career:

I was a business teacher in the Connetquot School District as well as teaching first grade the last 8 years of my career. When people ask which I preferred I usually answer first grade: they never cut class, always completed homework, and I often got a hug at the end of the day.

Lifelong Hobbies:

Right now it's golf (can't get enough of it although I'm pretty mediocre); love Gourmet cooking and started a Gourmet Dining Club in Florida in my community, compiling menus and recipes for up to 48 couples; also love reading, needlework, puzzles, and on-line scrabble.

Currently I am passionately tending my 45 orchid plants.

Community Activities:

When my children were young I was very active in PTA, both locally and statewide. Now I volunteer for Cafe of Life which provides meals to the homeless and indigent in the community. Those consist of disabled vets and agricultural workers on the Florida farms. I also volunteer in the elementary schools reading to and working with young children who are struggling to learn English since many of them come from a Latino background.

Comments:

Although the high school years are so far in the past, I look forward to saying "Hi" again at the reunion.

I was unable to attend the 50th class reunion but if there are any of us still around would look forward to a ... would it be a 65th reunion?

Did You Graduate From North Or South?

South

Elementary School Info:

Lakeville and then Parkville Elementary Schools

Do you have an alternate address? Second home? Vacation home? What is the address?

We sold our Long Island and Pennsylvania property and currently live exclusively in Bonita Springs, Fl. It's too hot!!!

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March 19, 1954: Our Girl Scout Troop 45
Bottom Row L-R: Betsy Kelley, Barbara Bennett, Eileen Lohrey, Jerri Jourdon, Michelle Articola, Charna DomBrot, Josephine Corado; Top Row L-R: Sandy Lake, Fran Blumenschein, Shelley Geller, Luella DomBrot (Leader), Betty Enzel, Barbara Holt, Valerie Fraterrigo, Lilly Kelley (Leader,)Carol Ligotti, Beth Klein, and Dena Moldowsky.
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Apr 13, 2026 at 12:14 PM

Posted on: Sep 17, 2025 at 1:37 PM

I graduated from GNS so I didn't know you during our school years. I went to Parkville Elementary School. This is just a note to let you know that I thoroughly enjoyed your story about Mr. Morrissey. In 5th grade, I had a teacher called Mr. Buck who mysteriously disappeared from class one day and guess who appeared? Mrs. Davis!! This must have been the year before she replaced Mr. Morrissey. Small world.

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Posted on: Sep 08, 2024 at 3:29 PM

I just read your very interesting profile. I guess at this point in our lives we all do similar things (i.e., book clubs, theater, gardening, volunteering).

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Posted: Dec 17, 2013 at 12:42 AM
We just finished a round of golf at Great Rock, LI. From the left: Carol (Ligotti) Oliveri, my husband Ed, me, Tony Oliveri.
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My husband Ed & I this summer at Lake Sacandaga, NY.
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My husband Ed & I somewhere in the middle of all our 9 grandchildren (number 10 is at the left, as you can see).
Posted: Apr 25, 2026 at 3:18 PM
March 19, 1954: Our Girl Scout Troop 45
Bottom Row L-R: Betsy Kelley, Barbara Bennett, Eileen Lohrey, Jerri Jourdon, Michelle Articola, Charna DomBrot, Josephine Corado; Top Row L-R: Sandy Lake, Fran Blumenschein, Shelley Geller, Luella DomBrot (Leader), Betty Enzel, Barbara Holt, Valerie Fraterrigo, Lilly Kelley (Leader,)Carol Ligotti, Beth Klein, and Dena Moldowsky.